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The morning after a bad open house

You sat in the house for three hours and three people came through. The seller drove by twice and counted the cars. Monday morning, they're waiting for your call. Make it.

Call before noon.

They already know it was slow. They saw the empty street. The only question left is whether you'll say so or whether they'll have to drag it out of you, and the second one costs you more than the open house did. Call Monday morning, early enough that it's clearly the first thing on your list.

Lead with the plain count. "Three groups came through. One was a neighbor from two streets over. The other two were buyers, and here's what they said." No warm-up, no apology, no weather report. The seller's worry is that you're going to soften it. Don't, and the worry goes away.

Say the numbers without padding.

A bad open house tempts you to count generously. The neighbor becomes a visitor. The couple who stayed four minutes becomes "interested." Resist all of it. A seller who later finds out the count was padded stops believing every count after it, including the good ones.

"Two buyers. One said the backyard was the best part and the price felt high. The other didn't say much and left in a few minutes." That's the report. It's short, it's true, and the seller can do something with it. A padded version gives them nothing to do and something to doubt.

Let's separate the open house from the listing.

Sellers hear a slow open house as a verdict on the house. It isn't. It's a measure of who walked in off the street on one afternoon. The listing is measured by showings, which are buyers who made an appointment to see this specific house. Those are different numbers, and the second one matters more.

"The open house tells us about Sunday foot traffic. The showings tell us about buyers. We had four showings this week, which is a better read on the house than three walk-ins on a holiday weekend." Say that, and the seller stops treating one quiet afternoon as the whole story.

Put both numbers in the weekly update, side by side, so the difference is visible without you having to explain it again.

What a slow open house can tell you.

Look at the afternoon honestly before you draw anything from it. Was there a game on? A holiday? Rain? Another open house on the same street at the same time? A slow Sunday with three good reasons is a slow Sunday. A slow Sunday with none, in a neighborhood where open houses usually draw a crowd, is worth a second look at the price and the photos.

Then look at the week's showings before you decide. If the showings are steady and only the open house was quiet, the open house was the problem. If both are quiet, the open house just confirmed what the showings were already saying, and that's a price conversation, not an open house conversation.

Decide what the next one is for, or whether there is one.

Not every house needs another open house, and the seller should hear you say that. "Here's what I'd do differently if we hold another. Different weekend, a sign on the main road, a note to the agents who showed it. And if the showings keep coming without it, we may not need one." The seller gets a reason either way, and a plan with reasons is what they were waiting for on the drive-by.

Okay. A slow open house isn't a disaster. It's a Sunday with a small number attached to it, and the morning after is where you show the seller how you handle small numbers. Call early, say it straight, separate it from the listing, read the week, and name the next move. Then go get some sleep, you earned it!

Common questions

Should I tell the seller exactly how few people came?

Yes, the real count, with the neighbor counted as a neighbor. Sellers can handle a small number. What they can't handle is finding out later that the number was dressed up, because then every number you've ever given them gets a second look.

Should we hold another open house after a bad one?

Only with a reason. A different weekend, better signage, or a changed price can make a second one worth doing. If the showings are steady on their own, say so and skip it. An open house held to make the seller feel better about the last one tends to produce the same Sunday.

What if the only visitors were neighbors?

Say that, and don't dismiss them entirely. Neighbors talk, and one of them knows somebody who wants to move onto the street. But report them as neighbors, not buyers, and let the week's showings carry the real read on the house.

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